All blessings and curses depend on people. So, someone who wants to sit on the seat of blessing should remember two things.
Returning and listening to God are results If people walk the path of blessing.
Then, how do we return and listen to God? Here’s a method I can recommend. Set aside the quiet time to communicate with God by prayer, and you should ask God that Holy Spirit would help you to rebuild the relationship by turning back to God.
Similarly, I used to ask God to speak to me in my prayer with confidence God would lead his children on the right path. Bible says, “The gatekeeper opens the gate for him, and the sheep listen to his voice. He calls his own sheep by name and leads them out” (NIV, John 10:3).